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Sharing Silence

What happens when silence is no longer an option

ABANDONED. ARRESTED. SILENCED.

But Not Beaten

THE STORY IS PUBLIC

This Is About Accountability, Not Revenge

This is my story. It's about what happens when the services and systems meant to provide support fail, and the consequences of trying to get answers.

For years, I tried to resolve issues through the appropriate channels. Instead of finding a resolution, I found myself dealing with further difficulties, including the impact on my mental health, my wellbeing and my life.

I've spent enough years staying quiet. I'm no longer willing to pretend that what happened doesn't matter.

ACKNOWLEDGEMENT — ACCOUNTABILITY — RESTITUTION

I'm not looking to attack individuals or settle scores. I want the failures I've experienced to be acknowledged, the harm addressed, and the systems involved held accountable.

I can't change what's happened. But I can tell my story, ask difficult questions, and work towards making sure others don't have to go through the same thing.









Full Combined Master Summary | Sharing Silence

Full Combined Master Summary: Ruah Community Services + Housing Choices Australia

Purpose of this document

This document is a consolidated personal chronology and summary of my experiences involving Ruah Community Services, Housing Choices Australia, disability support, housing, mental health and the systems surrounding them.

It distinguishes, as far as possible, between documented facts, my personal recollection and lived experience, and matters that remain unresolved or cannot be established from the available evidence.

Where an exact date is known, I use it. Where only an approximate period can presently be established, I identify it as approximate rather than assigning an unsupported date.

It is not intended to attribute motives where they cannot be established or to suggest that one organisation or event caused every outcome described.


PART I: THE FOUNDATION

1. Independent Living Program

My housing and support originally came through the Independent Living Program (ILP) after homelessness and significant mental-health difficulties.

A social worker assisted me into the ILP. Access Housing, now Housing Choices Australia, provided the housing and Ruah provided support.

An important feature of that arrangement, from my experience, was that housing existed alongside support.

During that earlier period, stable housing combined with consistent support helped me rebuild stability.

That history is important because I do not experience housing, disability support and mental health as completely separate issues.

For someone with overlapping needs, a tenancy can provide an important physical foundation for stability, while maintaining that stability may also depend upon appropriate support, communication and accessible systems when circumstances change.

The housing remained.

The support did not.


PART II: APPROXIMATELY 2017 ONWARD

2. Previous support ceased

The support I had previously received ceased around 2017.

Over the years that followed, I increasingly tried to understand what had happened, what support remained available and which organisation or pathway could address my concerns.

Those questions eventually became relevant in my dealings with both Ruah Community Services and Housing Choices Australia.

I do not claim that either organisation individually caused every problem that subsequently occurred.

My experience instead illustrates the difficulty that can arise when services cross organisational boundaries and the person receiving them is left trying to navigate the spaces between those systems.

3. Housing maintenance and condition concerns

From approximately the same period, I have raised maintenance, condition and safety concerns concerning my Housing Choices property.

Issues I have reported or observed have included:

I have observed water damage around the shower dating back to approximately 2017.

I have also repeatedly observed and reported black mould during my tenancy, including around the front door and the window at the top of the stairs.

This records my observations, experiences and the history as it has been communicated to me. It does not purport to provide an independent technical assessment of the property.

4. Accessibility and the stairs

I have significant mobility limitations involving my back and legs.

I have fallen on the stairs on multiple occasions.

Damaged stair capping remained unresolved over a prolonged period before eventually being repaired following a serious fall.

Repairing the damaged capping addressed that particular defect. It did not resolve my broader accessibility concern about continuing to live in a two-storey property while experiencing mobility difficulties.

I had previously been assessed as requiring single-level accommodation.

For me, this demonstrates the difference between accommodation being available and accommodation being suitable for an individual's circumstances.

5. Mental-health deterioration

During this broader period, my mental health deteriorated significantly.

I became increasingly isolated and experienced suicidal ideation and attempts to end my life.

I do not present that history as proof that Ruah, Housing Choices, or any single decision or event caused those outcomes. My circumstances were complex and involved multiple factors.

It is nevertheless part of my lived experience that this deterioration occurred during a prolonged period in which previous support was no longer present, housing concerns remained unresolved and I was experiencing considerable difficulty navigating the systems around me.

For me, that history demonstrates why continuity, accessible pathways and effective coordination can matter in practice.


PART III: AROUND 2023

6. Electrical fittings identified for replacement

At a building inspection around 2023, deteriorating electrical fittings were acknowledged and listed as requiring replacement.

This is important because the cracking electrical fittings were therefore not concerns first raised in 2026.

One electrical fitting associated with an incident I reported as an electric shock was subsequently repaired.

I have continued to report concerns about other fittings that had previously been identified as requiring replacement.

This records the history as I experienced it and does not constitute an independent electrical assessment.


PART IV: 2025

7. Early 2025: meeting with Nina Anderson and Jodie Harding

In early 2025, I met with Nina Anderson and Jodie Harding concerning the Ruah history.

During that meeting, I was told that my case file was still open.

That statement was significant to me because I had been trying to understand what had happened to my previous support and my status within the service.

I record it specifically as what I was told at the meeting.

I do not make assumptions about what an open case file meant legally or administratively, or whether it meant that I remained formally entitled to a particular service.

Importantly, this meeting occurred before the formal notification of May 2025, my arrest in July 2025 and the criminal proceedings that followed.

The questions concerning my previous support and the available dispute pathway therefore already existed before those later events.

8. Seeking a formal Ruah dispute pathway

By 2025, approximately eight years had passed since the previous Ruah support associated with the ILP had ceased.

I was not simply approaching Ruah to ask generally what had happened.

I was seeking a formal dispute pathway through which the history of that support and my concerns about what had happened could be properly addressed.

From my perspective, the central questions were:

What happened to the support?

Where did the dispute formally belong?

What process was available to have it considered?

I wanted the matter addressed through an appropriate process.

That did not occur in the way I had requested, and the dispute subsequently escalated.

A formal notification concerning the Ruah dispute was dated 29 May 2025. That document addressed the previous support history, contemporary interactions with Ruah, requests for records and the escalating dispute.

My requests for information included records and internal material concerning me.

9. July 2025: arrest and commencement of criminal proceedings

The escalation of the Ruah dispute eventually became connected with events that resulted in my arrest in July 2025.

I was initially charged with:

The criminal proceedings continued for more than a year.

The criminal charges and the underlying service dispute were related parts of the chronology, but they were not the same issue.

The fact that the dispute ultimately became connected with criminal proceedings does not, by itself, answer the earlier questions about what happened to the support or what formal dispute pathway had been available.

10. 8 July 2025: WA Police response to my complaint

Separate from the criminal court's determination of the charges, I had already lodged a complaint with WA Police concerning the handling of earlier communications.

On 8 July 2025, police responded to that complaint under reference DR2025-0302.

I was subsequently advised that Senior Sergeant Grant Pollard had identified what were described to me as administrative discrepancies involving the original call takers and that those staff had been spoken to.

This information forms part of the wider chronology surrounding the dispute.

It should not be confused with a finding made by the criminal court.

I do not infer from the police response why later decisions were made, whether the identified administrative discrepancies affected subsequent events, or what individual officers thought.

Those conclusions would require evidence beyond the information I was provided.

The significance of preserving this part of the record is narrower: the criminal proceedings did not arise in a historical vacuum. There was an earlier dispute and a wider sequence of events, including a separate police complaint and response.

11. 31 July 2025: earlier court hearing

A court hearing took place on 31 July 2025, at which the criminal matter was adjourned.

This was an earlier hearing in the proceedings. It was not the final court date.

The proceedings continued after that hearing.

12. October 2025: Housing Choices support questions

In approximately October 2025, I corresponded with Housing Choices' Claire Brown.

After receiving a breach, I was told that I would receive the same supports I had received with my previous housing officer.

That raised an important question because meaningful support had been absent for a prolonged period:

What support was actually available?

A face-to-face meeting subsequently occurred involving Claire Brown, Tim Richardson, my Fremantle Hospital case manager and me.

The question of what support was actually available remained unresolved from my perspective at that stage.

13. 17 December 2025: Louise Ardagh's retirement

On 17 December 2025, Louise Ardagh retired as Chair and Board Director of Ruah Community Services.

Her retirement forms part of the organisational chronology during this period.

I do not attribute her retirement to my dispute or the events involving me, as I do not have evidence establishing her reasons for retiring.


PART V: EARLY 2026

14. February 2026: further Housing Choices enquiry

In February 2026, I made another enquiry through the Housing Choices information line and with my then-new housing officer, Ruby Handley.

I did not obtain the clarification I was seeking about the support available to me.

15. March 2026: Housing Choices complaint escalation

In March 2026, I escalated the matter to Housing Choices' complaints process.

I received an acknowledgement indicating that the matter, including the question of available supports, would be investigated.

I did not receive substantive written clarification at that point.


PART VI: 2026 HOUSING EVENTS

16. Fremantle Hospital involvement

During 2026, hospital staff became involved in advocating in relation to my housing circumstances.

My Fremantle Hospital case manager assisted me with communication, documentation and tenancy advocacy and was involved around the period of housing inspections.

For me, that involvement illustrates why my housing circumstances cannot easily be separated from my disability and mental-health circumstances.

They were overlapping issues occurring in the same life.

17. Housing inspection and 13-week reinspection

Following an inspection in 2026, I received correspondence referring to “some minor improvements.”

The action items recorded in the correspondence concerned work to be undertaken by Housing Choices rather than corrective actions directed to me.

They included shower or bathroom tile work, the warped front door, the toilet light switch and the bathroom fan.

No tenant actions were listed in that material.

I was nevertheless placed on a 13-week reinspection cycle rather than the six-month interval I had previously expected.

The written outcome also did not record several wider concerns that had been discussed or observed from my perspective, including mould, other electrical concerns and the continuing accessibility issue associated with the stairs.

I do not infer from those omissions why the written record was prepared in that way.

I record the difference between what I recall being discussed or observed and what appeared in the written outcome.

18. Contractor attendance and bathroom inspection

During 2026, on one occasion a contractor attended at approximately 7:30 am without the prior communication I had expected and repeatedly knocked while I was asleep.

Unexpected knocking is a significant trauma trigger for me.

I panicked and initially believed the person at the door might be police.

I have repeatedly requested that Housing Choices and contractors communicate with me through SMS or email, rather than relying on telephone calls or unexpected attendance.

That request should not be interpreted as a refusal to permit reasonable access or necessary maintenance.

I need advance written information identifying who is attending, why they are attending and when they are expected so that I can prepare for the attendance.

During a contractor or tiler attendance concerning the bathroom, the contractor looked at the floor tiles and asked whether I had tried cleaning them.

The contractor also noticed the damaged shower wall and asked what had happened.

I explained that, from my experience of the property, the damage had existed since around 2017.

The contractor indicated that matching replacement tiles might not be available and discussed re-grouting.

My concern is not simply the cosmetic appearance of the bathroom.

I want to understand whether the underlying cause and extent of the longstanding damage are being adequately identified and addressed.

19. Mould and the written inspection record

During this period, mould also remained an issue I had reported.

I believe some of the recurring mould is associated with external water ingress. Some affected areas are also in locations I cannot safely reach.

I have respiratory illness and have experienced respiratory symptoms and COPD flare-ups during periods in which mould has been present.

I am not presenting that timing alone as medical proof that mould caused any particular episode.

Housing Choices personnel have, in my presence, verbally acknowledged mould during inspections.

However, subsequent written inspection material I received did not include mould among the recorded issues.

For me, the significant point is the difference between matters discussed or observed during an inspection and what subsequently appears in the written record.

20. 2026 pre-vacate inspection

At a pre-vacate inspection in 2026, the only tenant action formally identified in the material I received was essentially:

“Remove shade cloth.”

During that inspection, the inspector noticed the damaged shower wall and asked what had happened to it.

I explained that, from my experience, the water damage dated back to approximately 2017.

For me, this highlighted the contrast between the relatively limited tenant action formally recorded and the broader maintenance history I had been reporting.


PART VII: AUGUST 2026

21. Housing Choices support and appeal information

It was approximately August 2026 before I received written material setting out support and appeal processes.

The chronology therefore ran from discussions around October 2025 through to approximately August 2026 before I received clear written information addressing those pathways.

22. August 2026 single-level property

In August 2026, Housing Choices identified a single-level property that I inspected.

Removing the stairs would have addressed one significant accessibility concern.

However, during my inspection I observed what appeared to me to be water damage in a bedroom on a wall adjoining the bathroom.

I also observed bathroom grout that appeared to have been partly redone around the toilet while other areas remained in poorer condition.

The property had a substantial garden or yard that, in my assessment, would have required considerably more physical maintenance than I could reasonably manage given my disability.

I also could not identify a practical location for the type of catio I currently use to allow my cats outside without roaming into neighbouring properties or affecting wildlife.

My anxiety was high during the inspection. I did not take photographs because I was concentrating on assessing whether I could realistically live there.

I declined the property because I did not consider it suitable for my circumstances.

For me, the experience illustrates a straightforward distinction:

Available does not necessarily mean suitable.

A property can address one accessibility problem while still presenting other features that make it unsuitable for a particular resident.

23. 25 August 2026: final criminal court outcome

By August 2026, the criminal proceedings had continued for more than a year.

The matter had originally been headed toward the District Court.

Ultimately, the Magistrates Court agreed to deal with the matter summarily.

The prosecution then agreed to resolve the original six carriage-service charges down to one.

My lawyer advised me that I had a strong defence and that he would have been happy to take the matter to trial.

I ultimately decided not to do that.

After more than a year of proceedings, the impact on my mental health had become too much. I chose to plead guilty to the remaining carriage-service charge rather than continue through a trial that I no longer had the capacity to endure.

I also pleaded guilty to one breach of bail.

On 25 August 2026, the criminal proceedings concluded.

The final outcome was:

The total financial penalty and costs were $1,460.

The conviction records the outcome of the criminal matter.

It does not, by itself, resolve the underlying service dispute or answer the questions that led me to seek a formal dispute pathway in the first place.

Likewise, the separate police response concerning administrative discrepancies involving the original call takers was not a finding made by the criminal court and should not be represented as one.

These are different parts of the historical record and should each be described according to what the relevant evidence establishes.

The criminal proceedings are now finished.

The conviction is part of the record.

So is the history that preceded it.

Both can be true.


PART VIII: ACCESS TO SPECIALIST LEGAL HELP

24. Mental-health legal assistance

During the broader dispute, I sought legal assistance appropriate to circumstances involving mental health, disability and community services.

A specialist legal service associated with Ruah appeared potentially relevant to the type of assistance I needed.

Because my dispute itself involved Ruah, however, I was advised that a conflict of interest prevented that service from assisting me.

I do not criticise the individual lawyers for observing conflict-of-interest requirements.

For me, the experience exposed a practical difficulty: a person may seek specialist assistance because their dispute involves mental-health or community services, yet find that a service specialising in that area cannot assist because of its relationship with an organisation involved in the dispute.

I also experienced difficulty finding appropriate assistance through other legal and community-law avenues.


PART IX: WHAT THE CHRONOLOGY SHOWS

25. Two organisations, different responsibilities

The Ruah and Housing Choices histories are separate and should not be artificially collapsed into a single allegation or a claim of shared responsibility.

They nevertheless occurred within the same life.

Ruah Community Services became relevant to the previous support arrangements, my attempts to understand what happened to that support, my attempts to obtain a formal dispute pathway, the status of my case, access to information and the events that eventually became connected with criminal proceedings.

Housing Choices Australia became relevant to the condition and suitability of my housing, maintenance, accessibility, communication, available support and attempts to obtain suitable alternative accommodation.

Different organisations may have different responsibilities, policies and legal obligations.

The person navigating those systems still experiences their consequences within one life.

26. Organisational principles and lived experience

Both Ruah and Housing Choices have publicly promoted principles that include, in different forms, support, safety, connection, listening, partnership and recognition of lived experience.

I do not dispute the value of those principles or suggest that my experience represents that of other people using their services.

They are relevant to my history only insofar as they provide context against which I can examine my own experience.

Housing Choices also publicly describes its work using principles including safe and secure housing, quality, stability, listening, partnership and lived experience.

My experience raises the narrower question of how those principles operate for an existing resident dealing with longstanding maintenance, accessibility, communication and support concerns.

My position is not that difficult lived experience automatically proves organisational wrongdoing.

It is that difficult lived experience can contain information worth examining against the available records.

That is also the standard I try to apply to my own account: distinguish what happened, what can be independently established, what I experienced, and what remains interpretation or unanswered question.


PART X: SHARING SILENCE

27. Why the record matters

Sharing Silence originally developed from writing my memoir for personal reasons.

It was not created as a campaign against Ruah Community Services, Housing Choices Australia or any other organisation.

As I continued writing and examining my history, my experiences involving housing, disability support, mental health and the systems surrounding them became part of that broader story.

Sharing Silence remains my story, with these experiences forming part of it rather than being the reason it was created.

In documenting them, I try to distinguish between:

What I can establish happened.

What documents or other records establish.

What I personally experienced or recall.

What an organisation has publicly stated.

Questions or opinions arising from those matters.

What the available evidence does not establish.

Where the evidence stops, I try to stop with it.


APPENDIX: ONLINE OBSERVATIONS

The following observations are preserved as part of my records but are separated from the main narrative because they do not carry the same evidentiary weight as correspondence, inspection records, official documents or court material.

After I had begun publicly discussing my housing experience, I found that I was blocked on LinkedIn by the account of Housing Choices Australia CEO Leilani Frew.

I can establish that I was blocked. I cannot establish why that decision was made, and I do not attribute a motive to it.

I have also monitored LinkedIn profile views and traffic to the Sharing Silence website.

At different times, LinkedIn has displayed employees associated with Housing Choices or Ruah among my profile viewers. Website analytics have recorded traffic from Australian cities and, on one occasion, four sessions attributed to a Microsoft Teams-related referral source.

These observations may establish what the relevant platform reported, but they do not establish the identity of anonymous visitors, why somebody visited, what was discussed internally, whether activity was coordinated, who shared a particular link, or what anybody thought.

I therefore preserve these matters as observations rather than evidence of motive or internal organisational activity.





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